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"hes a jerk."
"dump him."
"you deserve better."
"forget him."

i am never ever gona say these words ever again.
after today, i suddenly realised how many times ive said that.
its so easy for us to tell that to our friends when they complained to
us about their heartbreaks. its so easy to say that but its not easy
for them to actually do it.

of course its so bloody damn easy to listen to their problems
and ask them to forget about the guy and say, "hes a jerk" or
"he has hurt you so many times" or "forget him, hes not worth it"
or whatever that may seem comforting. but do we actually realised
what we said didnt really helped?

how many times have you told your friend to forget about the
guy but in the end, they got back together? how many times have
you told your friend that the guy is a jerk but she kept siding him?
how many times have you heard your friend cry because of the
same thing all over again?

what else should you say to a friend who's crying to you?
you cant possibly say, "its your fault." right?

its like a big duh to tell your friend that the guy is stupid, that the
guy is not worth it, that she totally deserved better. even if its true.
there is nothing much to say to a friend who has just got her heart
broken. all she need right now is you, to take her side. and yet,
she will never listen to you. am i right to say that?

it may seem easy to tell your friend to move on.
but its not easy for that friend to do it. no matter how many times
the guy has hurt her, she will look on the bright side of things. she
will think about the good times in their relationship, not the bad
times. she will think how long their relationship is and its a waste
to end it like that. she will think that the guy will come back if she
were to wait a little longer. she will still have faith in the relationship.
soon, she'll tell you that they got back together.

no matter how much the guy has hurt her, she will never
forget the love she has for him. she will never forget the good
times because thats when she fell in love all over again. she will
never forget the months or even years they spent together
because its goddamn precious. she will never forget the guy
because he was the one who made her happy in the first place.

you will find her stupid because she didnt listened to you advices.
you will find her annoying the next time she calls, complaining
about the same thing. and then you will tell her the same thing
all over again. its like a routine in a friendship, right?

but you know what, you can feel annoyed, irritated, whatever.
but you will never know how she feels until you experienced it
yourself. you'll finally realised that it aint easy to let go
something you really love and treasure. it aint easy to let go of
something you had so much faith on.

i will not say my friends' advices were useless or uncomforting
because its not. it did helped but only for awhile.

to all my friends who has constantly been advising me, thank you so
much. i really appreciate it. im sorry if i hadnt been listening to
any of your advices. im sorry if this random post had offended you,
i didnt mean to. its just how i feel right now. i went home today and
did alot of thinking. i have never in my entire life, did so much
thinking in one day. =)

i feel like a total shit head right now and for no reason at all.
i'll feel better soon. hopefully.

okay. im done here.
im gona sulk for the rest of the night.

toodlydoo~

FALY.
go figure. =)

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